Corrective experiences from fear facing
“If you die once every day, then you’ll know what life is about.”Wim Hof Preface The fear I faced in this story involves spending time in very cold water. Not…
“If you die once every day, then you’ll know what life is about.”Wim Hof Preface The fear I faced in this story involves spending time in very cold water. Not…
As a metaphor for emotional regulation, I’ve been thinking about the simple image of balancing on top of a ball lately. The one in my imagination looks like one of…
I’d like to preface this by saying that books such as these are unlikely to quickly reveal your calling. Getting in touch with our purpose is not a small or…
Huberman's Sleep Toolkit A collection of 12 strategies for getting better sleep from one of the top health and neuroscience experts: https://www.hubermanlab.com/newsletter/toolkit-for-sleep Books What better way to lull your insomnia…
“If you desire healing, let yourself fall ill, let yourself fall ill.”Rumi It’s not uncommon to hear clients use the word “fix” in session, often said with some amount of…
“Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over again to annihilation, can that which is indestructible in us be found.”Pema Chodron Many people come to a therapist…
If all the theories I draw from were like different sections of an orchestra or band, perhaps humanistic therapy would be the percussion section - always present in the background,…
Introduction Difficulties in intimate love relationships are one of the most common reasons that new clients come to therapy. If not the primary reason, it's often secondary. Most problems that…
This is a metaphor that I sometimes share with clients. It comes up when people are trying to make decisions about whether they should move toward something or away from…
"Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree in the midst of them all."Buddah After…